There are things which the Bible speaks of that can affect us. Christians are called to read the scriptures and examine everything. To help emphasize this, there’s a parable which Jesus tells of the unforgiving servant. The Master had compassion on his servant, forgave his servant’s debt and released him. But this same servant went out to collect a debt that was owned him and instead of having compassion, and extending mercy to his debtor, he chose to treat him roughly then throw him into prison. The parable is found in Matthew 18:21-35. But notice the words spoken by Jesus in the last few sentences, they read;
Matthew 18:33,34 – Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you? And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due him. So my heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses.
What’s the moral of this parable?
The Lord Jesus Christ tells us if we don’t forgive others who sin against us, His Heavenly Father also will do the same to us, meaning, we will be delivered to the torturers. Christ doesn’t say they will invade us, but, they will have the power to torture us. While forgiveness is a difficult thing, especially, for women who have been targeted by those who only had evil intent. It is necessary, it is a teaching Christ taught. For instance, as a child I was molested by 3 different people, one being a pastor. But the Holy Spirit showed me I needed to forgive so that I could be forgiven for my own sins. God is so merciful and helps us to understand the importance of forgiveness.
The Scriptures are also very clear that a “true born again believer” cannot have a demon residing in them. Because each person is responsible for their own sins, unfortunately, their are many religious leaders who teach that our sin is caused by demons. Many blame demons for their anger, lust, sexual immorality, filthy mouth or lying. This is not biblical, because the scriptures say;
James 1:13,15 – When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when by His own evil desires He is lured away and enticed. Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.
Matthew 15:18,19 – But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these things defile the man. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, and slander. These are what defile a man, but eating with unwashed hands does not defile him.
As someone who’s been molested, I knew the Spirit was speaking to me to forgive. While it was a very difficult thing to do, I now have peace within. While I’ve never spoke about what had happened to me until I was able to completely forgive, now I have no issues discussing it. Maybe it’s to help other women who have gone through such trauma and letting them know if you want peace, you must forgive. God gives us mercy when we forgive from the heart. He takes all those negative emotions and fills us with His peace.
It’s also important to understand that scripture teaches a “true believer” cannot be possessed by a demon. We can however, be influenced through our attitude and emotions, but it’s strictly from outside the body. A demon’s primary goal is to get you to reject God and from living a godly lifestyle so they can then inhabit you, only, when you reject God. Christians can also be deceived when we listen to teachings inspired by demons, but only from the outside. Scripture confirms this, which reads;
2 Corinthians 11: 13,15 – For such men are false apostles, deceitful workers, masquerading as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. It is not surprising, then, if his servants masquerade as servants of righteousness. Their end will correspond to their actions.
Of course, we also need to examine ourselves to ensure we are following the Scriptures as Jesus taught. Are we loving God with all our heart, mind, soul and strength? Are we loving our fellow man? Are we walking in the scriptures as Jesus taught? And remember, Jesus taught we are called to love our enemies also. We’re not called to condone a person’s ungodly actions and share in them, but, to love everyone including our enemies. Why? Because mankind is created in the image of God!
But there is another thing to consider, are you unequally yoked with someone? Are you hanging out with unbelievers? Living Worldly and accepting everyone believing your following Christ, regardless of someone else’s ideologies? We must stand on Truth! Scripture is clear, while we are called to sow and reap among unbelievers, we are not called to live with them or even associate with them other than from a witnessing standpoint. The scripture reads;
2 Corinthians 6:14,16 – Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ or belial? Or what does a believer have in common with a unbeliever? What agreement can exist between the Temple of God and idols? For we are the Temple of the living God.
The last thought I want to point out regarding the issue of forgiveness is holding on to a grudge. When we hold on to grudges we go against the spirit and walk in the flesh. Remember, the scriptures read;
Galatians 5:16,21 – So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh craves what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are opposed to each other, so that you do not do what you want. The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, and debauchery; idolatry and sorcery; hatred, discord, jealousy, and rage; rivalries, divisions, factions, and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Read this list carefully, because those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh. But it doesn’t mean everyone who walks by the flesh has a demon, but, it does mean we sin. The Scriptures read;
Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified
the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we
live by the Spirit let us walk in step with the Spirit.
Galatians 5:24
Are you careful what you say, does it line up with biblical teaching? Are you careful with what you hear and what you watch? These are extremely important things to consider. We each need to examine ourselves to ensure we’re walking in the way of the Spirit.
Glory to God and God bless…